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Thats it! You kept your eye on the ball and it dropped right into your mitt. Youre getting to be one dynamite ball player!
A C! But we worked so hard on fractions. I guess youre just no good at math. Oh, well.
We all know how it feels. And, if we take the time to remember, weve all experienced the long-term consequences of effective and ineffective feedback. Specific feedback, delivered well, can inform and motivateresulting in higher performance. Poor feedback, delivered inappropriately, demoralizes the receiver and destroys all joy in possible improvement. But worst of all is no feedback. Todays talented, ambitious employees want to receive feedback: it gives them a clear picture of how theyre doing and where theyre headed. A perceived lack of feedback often motivates your best employees to head elsewhere.
Delivering effective feedback is an essential skill for managersfor coaching, performance assessment, career development, and employee retention. But because of our lifelong experience in receiving both effective and ineffective feedback, the skill may not come intuitively. Fortunately, there are four straightforward criteria to measure our feedback skills against. These criteria also give us specific information with which to improve our delivery of feedback. Effective feedback is:
Be SPECIFIC So Employees Knows What to Improve and
How
For feedback to lead to a desired change, it must focus on
specific observations about current behavior. This sounds
simple but can take skill and practice to execute in the heat of
the moment.
Example: A client presentation goes badly. No agreement is reached on next steps. Your manager tells you that the presentation was not up to your organizations standards. You feel bad and vow to do better next time. But you dont know what to do differently, nor will you know (except by inference) what was meant by standards. However, if your manager tells you that you need to include some overheads of key points, shorten the talk to 10 minutes, and continue to speak with enthusiasm and commitment, you will know specifically what you are already doing well and how to improve your performance.
Providing facts and data strengthens the impact of feedback. The more specific you are, the clearer the understanding is between you and your recipientand this can be invaluable if there is any dispute.
Depending upon the communication style and personality of the recipient, you may find that giving advice, offering your opinions, and even brainstorming ideas for improvement is also welcome and effective.
Focus on behavior, which is relatively easy to change. Avoid making evaluative statements (i.e., judgments or opinions) about personality or attitudes, which are more ingrained and therefore difficult to alter.
Translate evaluative statements into specific and helpful behavioral statements:
| CHANGE Evaluative Statements | TO Specific Behavioral Statements |
| You are defensive and rigid. | When I gave you negative feedback, you argued and said you know the right way to do your job. |
| She has a good attitude. | She volunteers for assignments whenever they arise. |
| Youre not building relationships well enough in the organization. | Youve done a good job including people from your team in planning meetings. You should also include people from other teams because it will help you get to know and work with people and priorities across the organization. |
Timeliness the Sooner the
Better
Almost always, the rule for giving feedback is
the sooner the
better. A fresh, here-and-now
experience has more impact. When your goal is to derail a behavior
before it becomes a habit, timeliness is crucial. One exception: if
people are extremely upset, it may be wise to wait until emotions
have settled a bit.
Why is timeliness so important? Infrequent or out-of-context feedback increases the chances that details will have been forgotten or circumstances will have changed. It helps to remember what an orchestra conductor told his eighth-grade string players: The right note at the wrong time is the wrong note.
Balance Positive and Negative Feedback
Some managers think the only important feedback is
negative. Others believe that the only way to motivate someone is
via positive statements. They forget that most employees truly want
to know what they can improve.
One effective technique is to talk about how an employees strengths can be applied to change a problematic behavior. Verbalize your faith that, with the employees hard work and the organizations support, the employee can improve in this area.
Dont overload someone with a laundry list of criticism; focus on the one or two most important areas for improvement.
Action Plan: Follow Up, Then Follow Up, Then Follow
Up
Managers often assume that corrective feedback automatically equals
change. Theyre usually mistaken.
Sharing information is simply the first step in the process. Make
sure that your feedback is focused on the future. Come to agreement
on the facts and causes of the problem. When discussing solutions,
be clear about your expectations. Agree on action steps, a
timeline, and ways you can provide support.
Its a good idea for managers to meet
with each of their direct reports on a quarterly basis to discuss
both successes and areas that need improvement.
More Ways to Improve Your Feedback Skills
Practice improving your feedback delivery by evaluating your
experiences against the four criteria: Was the feedback specific,
timely, balanced, and actionable? In addition, team-building
exercises can help you understand your personality style and that
of your coworkers, so that you can couch your feedback in the ways
most easily received by the listener.
Self-assessmentunderstanding what
youre good
atand individual coaching can be
helpful. Practice and experience are often the best teachers.
Finally, theres nothing wrong with
asking and employee, When giving you
feedback to help you improve performance, how am I
doing?